Being a Woman Can Suck

Being a woman at times can kind of suck... don't get me wrong I love, LOVE, LOVE being a girl, but at times it sucks for the following reasons.

1.) Girls don't like each other.

      Now, this isn't COMPLETELY true, but mostly.  Girls will drop other girls in a millisecond for a 

      guy.  Freakin men do not do this.  Also so many girls do the whole "I just like to hang out with 

      dudes; I don't get along with girls." which basically means they are wanting to be the girl who can 

      chill with the dudes, but in reality they are not that girl.  Because the girl who can chill with the 

      dudes also likes hanging out with girls and doesn't label herself, because guys don't label themselves.  

      I may have been hanging out with a guy whom I have a secret crush on, and we went to the "I only 

      like to hang out with guys" girl's house, and she was NOT friendly to me in the slightest.  I think she 

      liked the guy I showed up with, or she was frustrated I came, because turns out I am in all actuality 

      kind of a girly girl.  

2.) Guys have all the power.

     Now again not COMPLETELY true but mostly.  The one and only guy I have kissed I am  

     embarrassed to ever see again because I am terrified he is going to think I am in love with him (which 

     I am not, but for some reason I assume he is going to think that).  The problem is, you know this guy 

     in question hasn't thought twice about it, nor is he embarrassed to see me, which leads me to believe 

     HE HAS THE POWER.  Also the man I am currently secretly in love with has not called me since 

     last Saturday... today is Thursday... WTF.  I mean that obviously means he is not interested but it's 

     not like I can call him and be like "so what's up" I mean I could, but that would be seen as desperate 

     but I think he is handsome and can't stop thinking about him which is silly because it's not 

     reciprocated.  I guess in that instance it's not the man having the power fully its that I like him, he 

     doesn't like me, but guys are the ones who are supposed to do the initiating.  

3.) Child birth, nuff said.

and lastly...

4.) "Guys are visual"

     The above statement is so full of crap because basically what it means is "Guys are picky about your body and what you look like it's ingrained in them so it's OK".  Don't get me wrong, you need to be attracted to the person you are with, and so if the guy is not attracted to a girl, I get it.  BUT that means that nature has made it so that we have to live at higher standards than the male, we have to have the perfect beach bod, BECAUSE its the nature of man.  Where as with girls we are "emotional" and can fall in love with personality which makes a man sexy and handsome.... BOO! 

Well I guess thats all...

Lisi

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