Interesting

I work with a lot of women.  This makes things at work often difficult due to our inert ability to be overly dramatic, petty, gossipy, and overall make things more emotional then need be.  That being said there are also a lot of men who work with me who are not within the office (cooks, gardeners, life guards and of course the maintenance men.).  Now I do not think higher of myself then I am, but for some reason most of these men LOVE me.  A lot of I think has to do with culture as most of them are of Latino descent and I don't know what it is but Latino men LOOOOVVVVVEEEE blond women.  I don't care what you look like if you have blond blond hair they are always going to yell "Mirada, mirada (translation "look, look").  Anywho, most of the men from work are also old enough to be my father so some of them treat me like a daughter, some of them try to flirt and one of them I think could be fired for the way he recently showed his affection to me.  

Grant it, this man is the oldest man, and often considers me (so I thought) as a grandaughter, seeing as his daughter is much much older than me and physically could be my mother but probably not my mother as she would have been 20 or 21 when she had me.  But he comes in and puts his arm around me, no big, and then is hand slides down to my mid back, still no problem.  Where it then goes lower and he gets a nice firm grip on my hip, slash love handles. 

Now maybe this was purely plutonic and there was nothing weird behind it, BUT either way had HR walked in things would have gotten real awkward real fast.  

That's all.  Oh and my fav coworker wants to set me up with her 30 something friend who lives in San Diego, I think I would like that, I think I would like a set up, and I know I like the age range.  I am 23 but I love a good 5 years+ between me and my men.  I guess I being robbed from my cradle...

Goo Goo Gah Gah 

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